Many different things affect the decisions we make on a daily basis, and some of these influences go unnoticed by us. Our fundamental beliefs, which are deeply rooted opinions and presumptions about ourselves, other people, and the world around us, are among the most influential of these variables. These beliefs, which frequently function in the background like an unseen script, influence our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Gaining insight into, and changing, these most basic personality-based influences can significantly improve our lives by enabling us to make more empowered decisions and fostering better self-control. This blog will discuss how one’s underlying belief system is influenced by our most basic personality traits and can affect our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors.
Understanding Core Beliefs
Core beliefs are the fundamental ideas that we hold to be true about ourselves and the world. They are often formed during childhood and can be influenced by family, culture, personal experiences and the genetic code we can see in our family history. These beliefs serve as a lens through which we interpret our experiences and make decisions. For example, someone with a core belief of “I’m not good enough” may suffer from some level of depression even though they do not know it. They may avoid taking on challenges for fear of failure, while someone who suffers some level of shyness may believe “The world is a dangerous place” and may approach life with anxiety and caution.
These ideas are frequently influenced by prior experiences and reinforced over time; they are not always grounded in rationality. Core beliefs have a big influence on our behavior and decision-making, yet they can be hard to pinpoint since they function at such a deep level.
Identifying Your Core Personality Characteristics
Personality frameworks like the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) or the Big Five Personality Traits can provide insights into your natural tendencies, but you can go beyond these surface traits by embracing the remarkable book, WHY YOU DO THAT “Revised Version,” by John B. Evans, PhD. You can order your copy on amazon.com or from the link provided below. Read the 24-page questionnaire and then read any of the chapters the questionnaire suggests you read. Then read the chapter, The Family Systems of Murray Bowen to help you understand how the family you were raised in affected you and how your current family might be affecting your children. Keep in mind that greater self-awareness naturally leads to greater self-control.
How Core Beliefs Influence Daily Decisions
The influence of core beliefs on our daily decisions is pervasive. They can dictate how we react to situations, how we relate to others, and how we perceive our own potential. For instance, if you believe that “Success requires constant hard work,” you might find yourself working long hours, even at the expense of your well-being. On the other hand, if your core belief is “I’m unworthy of love,” you might struggle to form or maintain healthy relationships.
Our core beliefs serve as a filter, guiding our interpretation of events and dictating what information we pay attention to and disregard. A self-fulfilling prophecy might result from this filtering process, in which our behaviors support our ideas by being influenced by them. For instance, you might pass up opportunities if you think you’re destined to fail, which would validate your mindset. Without a high level of self-awareness at the most basic level, we do not have the self-control necessary to overrule our irrational core beliefs.
Transforming Limiting Core Beliefs
Once identified, limiting core beliefs can be transformed through intentional practice. The first step is to challenge the validity of the belief. Ask yourself, “Is this belief based on facts or assumptions?” Consider alternative perspectives that counter the belief.
Next, swap out the restrictive belief for an empowering one. For example, change the phrase “I’m not good enough” to “I am capable and worthy of success.” In order to go through this process, you must intentionally decide to embrace the new idea and reinforce it with imagery, positive affirmations, and behavior that supports the new belief.
It’s important to be patient and persistent, as transforming core beliefs takes time. As you practice these new beliefs, they will gradually become your new reality, leading to more positive and confident decision-making.
Conclusion
Our daily decisions are greatly influenced by our core ideas, which frequently have an impact on our lives that we may not completely recognize. We can overcome self-imposed limitations and make decisions that are true to our potential by recognizing and changing limiting beliefs. We have the ability to change the course of our lives and make daily decisions that are more empowered and rewarding when we exercise self-awareness and consistency.
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